Autism: A Different Voice


autism a different voice

by Erica Leung~One of the most common myths about Autism that really ruffles my feathers is that “people on the Autism Spectrum cannot communicate.” I think it is quite sad that we live in a world where technology provides us with up-to-the-minute information and yet so many still hold tight to old beliefs.  As an individual who understands Autism all too well, allow me to enlighten you as to how this theory holds no validity.

Communication happens in various forms and no one way is better than the next.  The deaf interact by using Sign Language and the blind with Braille. Individuals with Autism are capable of communicating with the world but their method of doing so may be different.  While many are able to vocalize their thoughts, others often benefit from the use of pictorial cards.  It does not really matter how one converses; the point is it can be accomplished through years of practice and patience.

Growing up in a large Asian Italian family, social gatherings are inevitable.  Despite the fact that everyone around me seems to live for such occasions, for me it is the second most dreaded event next to a toothache.  For starters, I am by no means a fan of loud noises, so when both sides of the family come together it is like a rock band meeting at a New York City protest.  I cannot focus as all I hear is loudness attacking me in every direction. Though only a few family members are able to accept this, I have learned that when I am in such situations, it is safest for me to revert inside my turtle shell to prevent a meltdown.

Many people do not and may never be able to understand this concept, but it is not always a conscious effort to not speak with someone.  There are numerous times when I feel the need to defend myself against others but I physically cannot do so.  These impediments are beyond my control and I learned the best solution is to just ride it out.  However, it does not mean that I am clueless about what is happening around me. My ability to use my voice may not always work but my ears do. I listen to everything people say about or around me and I have formed opinions to go along with what I’ve heard.  After all, listening is key to socialization.

Although I am a verbal Autistic, the most effective platform of letting others know what I am feeling is through written words.  I’m an open book of ideas and more often than not, my brain acts like the Energizer bunny.  Normally, I think faster than I am able to speak which unfortunately results in everything coming out in one garbled message which no one but 
me understands.  To make matters worse, I usually cannot remember what I’ve just said because my mind has already moved on to different subjects.

I love the simple fact that writing allows me to jot down anything at the exact moment it pops into my head.  It is not as anxiety provoking as having a face-to-face conversation with someone, and I can leisurely take the time to process my thoughts and form them into rational, comprehensible statements.  This might seem to most like a waste of everyone’s time but it is important to remember that some of the greatest people in history used inscriptions to convey their messages.

As one can see there are many variations in which humans express how they are feeling.  I think that if people were more open to individuality and embraced differences than the world would be a more peaceful place.  All too often, people (myself included) run away from what scares them and in turn end up missing an opportunity to learn something. The most important thing to remember is that just because things are done differently doesn’t mean they’re wrong.

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About Erica Leung

In my life I have been able to accomplish great things despite the obstacles I have overcome. When I was 17 years old I was first diagnosed with Autism. I share my life challenges and triumphs by blogging. Follow me www.autisticfemale.com A Girls Life on the Autism Spectrum. I promise to make you laugh more than cry!

4 thoughts on “Autism: A Different Voice


  1. Janaanro Roberts

    Thank you for your insights. This is the first I have read your writing, so please excuse my ignorance. I am curious what you use to communicate your thoughts? IPad?

    Thank you kindly,
    Janaan

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  2. Leslie Nist

    Leslie Nist
    Owner at Mallory’s Marvelous Muffins

    I agree! My daughter who is now 27 and has aspergers has communicated with me both verbally and just with her body language her whole life. When her eyes go wide and she gives me the “dead stare” I know it’s her own “code blue”! What has always amazed me is her deep, deep intuitive, perceptive ability to correctly assess what someone is feeling and yet cannot verbally articulate it. Then she passes you a note, or posts on facebook or sends you an IM and the incredible things she writes move you to tears. Nobody would ever guess what is going on in her head and if they don’t take an extra few minutes they miss the gift of a life time.

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  3. Erica Leung

    Hi Janaan

    Thank you for reading my work. I basically use anything and everything to convey my thoughts. For example I always carry a notebook with me where I can quickly jot down ideas or start writing blogs to share with the world later on . Another great outlet for me is the use of Text messaging where I can message any member of my support system what I am feeling at the moment I feel it without struggling to find the words to say what is bothering me.

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  4. Glyn Steiner

    Thanks so much for sharing Erica! I’m on the Autism Spectrum as well. I have a hard time verbalizing my thoughts but communicate best through text messaging and posting on social media websites. I’m very happy to hear that you have a good support system! Take care and hope to keep in touch with you.

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