A Road Out From Self-Sabotage
Giving so greatly to another person that one outcome for the giver is emotional harm or damage, is one example of self-sabotage. Despite originating in sincere …
Why does it take a crisis in someone else’s life for us to take stock of our own?
Never Take Anyone or Anything for Granted! My friend’s husband died instantly from a massive heart attack in mid-November. He was just 71 years-old. This is …
Divorce Talk with Your Children
Parents are usually at a loss when talking to their children about an impending divorce. What do you say? When is the perfect time? The experts say that you …
Letter To You, From Your Pain
Dear Human Being, Thank you for allowing me as your guest. I see you suffer when I’m in your house of emotional stability, happiness and well-being. My visit …
How to Make Gratitude an Attitude
A lot is known about gratitude and how beneficial it is for happiness and wellbeing. I previously wrote a post about its benefits and provided some suggestions …
Trust After Relationship Deception
It is possible to love someone, believe you are being loved in return, and either gradually or suddenly be handed the surprise of lies, broken promises, verbal …
Prescription for a Complex World
Most people are so busy they become unaware of the beneficial things all around them. Traffic jams, cell phones, deadlines, unexpected problems, caring for …
How Too Much Generosity Weakens You and Your Relationship
“Generosity” has so many positive connotations it is hard to imagine the term as an action which may damage either the giver or receiver of someone’s …
Add Self-Respect to Your Repertoire
With self-respect as your guidepost, many relationship dilemmas, crossroads, emotional hurt, sadness and anguish, are either avoidable, shorter lived, and will …
Affairs, Betrayals, Infidelities. Part One
These are all dirty words to the “victims” and not so healthy for the perpetrators. Please withhold judgment until you have read this and thought about it. …