Preparing For Your Actual Date of Divorce
After possibly years of reflecting, discussing, evaluating circumstances, planning the best time for your divorce, as well as dedicating time and energy to …
Be a Friend to the One You Love
“When you love someone, you do not love them all the time, in exactly the same way, from moment to moment. It is an impossibility. It is even a lie to …
9 Tips to Affair Proof Your Relationship
Once upon a time, when you took your vows to be committed to a life together, you never had a thought about the word “betrayal”. Yet, it is happening …
How I Reconnected with My Wife and Children
I recently had the opportunity to take a week vacation with my family to the town of Cabarete on the north coast of the Dominican Republic. This was the first …
The Paradox of Affairs
“Love is a many splendored thing,” or not. Often after the honeymoon and couples settle into “reality,” some let-down or depression kicks in. Life …
Prenuptial Agreement – Is This the Beginning of the End?
5 Tips to Making the Process Easier There is something inherently difficult – perhaps even distasteful – about the process of creating a prenuptial …
Wedding or Divorce.. Just Another Day…….
Each day consists of 24 hours, 1,440 minutes, 86,400 seconds. Some days seem to fly by and others drag on…and on. How time flies depends on what you’re …
Couples Therapy, The Potential for Growth
We are often faced with painful and challenging periods in our lives. You may be experiencing a sense of hopelessness as you search for a lasting intimate …
Can a Marriage Survive While Raising a Special Needs Child?
They say the divorce rate for couples raising a special needs child is between 70-80%. Raising a special needs child is hard and will definitely place …
The Heart of the Matter, Love…
As a clergy person, I have had the honor and privilege these past decades of officiating at countless weddings. The pre-marital conversations are always …